Quotes of the day

Today I just want to share with ya’ll a few quotes that have inspired me during this week. This is going to be a short post because I am doing a few things at the moment, but I am trying to catch up with all of you. These quotes mean so much to me because it has different meanings, and makes me to never give up on my goal. I hope everyone had a fantastic week because the weekend is now loading!!!! I hope these quotes help you out like they did with me. 

 

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Love you all and see you in the next blog post! stay tuned! 

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It’s My Birthday!

It’s my birthday!!!!!! WOOT WOOT!!!! Here are some of the things that I am grateful from this past year. 

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1. For God giving me many more days to see the sun, and be with my loved ones.
2. Learned that God takes away the negativity from your life when you least expect it. 
3. I saw that when you pray for fake people to go away they usually end up being from your circle.
4. Learned to be EXTRA patient because the timing of God is beyond perfect.
5. Got one of my dream jobs.
6. Got engaged this year and getting married this year!!
7. Started back into my fitness journey.
8. Made a few dreams come true and much more to come by the end of the year.
9. Made new friendships and unforgettable moments with them. 
10. Got better with my time management.
11. Learned to have more time for myself.
12. Created new content to put up by July.
13. Bought my new camera, mac desktop, cellphone, and a few more things with 1 paycheck.
14. Got more time to be with my little sister. 
15. Started learning more about the culture of my husband to be. Ecuador baby! 
16. Stopped trying to please people because I now put myself first. 
17. Stopped having a filter about every single topic. 
18. I started to care less about people opinions about my decisions. 
19. Honored God even more with everything I do. 
20. I started going to sleep more peacefully at night. 
21. Prayed even more then the past few years.
22. Got back to my 90s music because lets be real this new music now a days is TRASH!
23. Started composing brand new music for my album (surprise!) lol! 
24. Got new traditions to be doing with my finace which I will write about this a lot!
25. Got a new schedule so I have time to do everything, and even be with my friends! 
26. Added a few countries I want to go to in my bucket list. Which I will starting next year!
27. Made a plan to buy a house with my hubby to be. 
28. Got a few other secrets that I will reveal this coming year. 
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Turning 29 is going to be a wild year for me, and saying goodbye to my 20s will be tough. Each year that passes by gets a little more fun because there are many new things to learn, and places to explore. For everyone that has been in my blogging journey, the new ones that barely subscribed, and the ones who always ask how I am when I am away for a bit….THANK YOU! I hope that my blog brings you inspiration, love, and lots of blessings through every word that you read from your screen. I am so grateful to God for this brand new year that has been given me, going around the sun one more time, because at the end of the day all the glory and honor is to HIM. Well ya’ll this is it for today because I am off to keep enjoying my birthday, and I am so excited because this weekend the party doesn’t end lol! Love ya’ll lots!!!!! 
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Birthday Loading

It is Wednesday and with that the hours are starting to feel that they are going a little bit more faster because tomorrow is my birthday!!! It is so crazy how this week has flown by, and surprisingly enough I am catching up with updating my site! I still feel like it was yesterday when I started to blog, and when I decided to not have a filter with my posts. Anyways…..June has flown by so flipping quick, and with that getting closer to have a few days off. I have been working non-stop for the things that I needed, wanted, and most importantly working on new content for you all. Oh and did I mention my countdown to my wedding has finally begun? October 26 by city hall, and November 3rd the big ceremony!!! I am trying not to get overwhelmed because I always said that I do not want to be those type of brides where they turn into a bridezilla. The only thing I know will happen is that I will be hungry every single minute, and for that my matron of honor (Roro) will be the one carrying my snacks. LOL!

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Today I want to talk about my weight-loss journey, and what am I doing to get fit for my big day (as well as my engagement pictures next month!) so hyped!!! A while back my fiance got a gym membership in which I used to weigh 160, but going almost everyday with my other half I went down to 149! However, due to myself finally getting one of my dream jobs, and him getting more hours at work I stopped going. You see, he had the full membership and I would only go as a guest. It got to the point where I got so busy that I forgot to workout, and BARELY (a few days ago) started eating very unhealthy. About a week or maybe 2 weeks ago, I caught myself struggling to climb up the stairs, got sick, and when I went to the doctor he told me that I gained back to 151. To think that I hit a plateau and let myself go back to being unhealthy made me feel weak on the inside.

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So the same way that I splurged on things that I really wanted I decided to splurge on things that I REALLY needed. What did I do? Well, I bought myself a fitbit, new workout gear, and lastly got my own membership at the gym. From 152 I am back at 149 and I am so determined to continue losing weight. It turns out that those pounds I gained made me feel super weak, and I was running out of energy. My focus now are on my abs and getting my legs back on track!!! One thing that I noticed though, was that when I returned to the gym I saw that I can still lift the same amount that I used to do when I would go to the gym. The things that I started eating again help me feel so fresh, healthy, and full with energy. The saying that you are and feel what you eat is so true! So for my goal of being on my last year in my 20s is slimming back to 118!!!! I am aiming to be at least 120, but with seeing how a few models do it to get to back into shape (even weighing 100) I think I am able to bounce back.

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What’s crazy is that its my birthday month so that means no carbs at all. Cake who?? and I will be waiting to eat cake during the cake taste for my wedding which will be in about 2 months. I also cannot wait to share with you all my engagement pictures!! It is going to be so lit because I have my personal photographer that goes beyond my expectations, and he is also the youth pastor of our church which I love him sooooo much! Well this is it for today and I hope you all are having a great day!!

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Party? So who will you invite?

Let’s talk about invitations on who and to not invite to a party especially a wedding! I am going to be completely real with you all because I bet anyone who has gotten married, or is getting married went through this. I know tons of people that have or had this issue and they are so afraid on talking about it. So get a snack or two because this is gonna be (maybe) a long one.

Before I begin, to everyone that talked to me about this, and told me their situation this is what I would do! So let’s begin! 

Okay I get it! We all would like to invite possibly the whole world, and have the party of the year. What is the downside to this? pay attention. 

WARNING: If you feel offended by anything I will be talking about, and you are one of those people being invited to a party or want to be invited the only thing I can say is: If the shoe fits….wear it. 

FOR THE ONES THROWING A PARTY: TAKE NOTE! and I hope this helps! 

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Budget

If you are on a budget, there is a high chance your list might either increase or decrease. At the end of the day, everyone is going for the food, drinks, and entertainment. If you are lucky, they might just go for you instead of going to judge your party, gossip, and not understand why you do things the way you do. OUCH! that hurt didn’t it? However, that is the truth! So if you are throwing a party be true to yourself, and do not go overboard because at the end of the day its your choice in what you would like to have. 

Who to not invite 

As you go down the list you start with family, your friends, some friends of your parents, but then here come the unwanted people. Now who am I talking about? Let me break it down to you so read clearly. There are those type of people that automatically hit you up when they find out you are getting married, or having a birthday party. This also includes family members and old friends that might just unfriend you from social media, and then all of a sudden “friend” you again. There are those type of people where they literally invite themselves. People who never hung out with you, but love to gossip about you especially those that tell you that they expect an invitation. Even those types where you know they unfriended you, but in a text message they say; “So where is my invite?” lol! 

Here is another example, let’s say your family has friends where they think that just because they are friends with either your parents or uncles and etc….they think they are automatically invited. Do you see what I mean? Here is a big one, let’s say you are getting married but there are some that judged your relationship, never took the time to get to know your better half, and they still want to get invited. Also, those who just know you but your man/lady doesn’t even know them because those people never came around while you guys were dating. Hold on though I got more tea so keep reading!

Those type of people that are around every social media stalking your every move just to be either low key jealous, or just want to see how your party is so they can have something to talk about. I mean heck if that’s the case give them something to talk about!! Go big or go home! Wait there is more…what about shady family members? Now do not act so innocent because we all know dam well we have that type of person in our family. Those family members where they love… LOVE to talk trash about you, and want to get invited. COME ON NOW! Who cares if its an uncle, aunt, or even cousin…heck even grandparents cause if they are toxic those are the ones that should not be in the list. 

The less toxic and fake people that you have the better your day will be. Also, the less you will be spending for someone to come attend your important event. 

Who to invite

Even if you have a small list, or even a big one…make sure its all the people that have been there for you. People that you know will respect your party, the ones that will not leave your side when life gets complicated, and the ones that understand why you live the way you do. Especially respect whatever belief you might have because that also plays a big important role. Keep an eye out for those amazing people that you might take for granted, and instead of inviting them you invite the ones that are not meant to be at your party. 

Also, be sure that when you give the invitation to the person that deserves it make sure you let them know why you picked them to come to your event. Let them know how important they are to you, and especially how much they mean to you. Nothing else is better then letting him or her know how much you are blessed to them in your life. Everything is better when you have the ones that you love, the ones that are real, the ones that respect you for who you are, and the ones that never peer pressured you into anything be in your event. 

MANIPULATIVE

So let’s talk about the manipulative people out there that say, “If you don’t give me a plus 1 I will not go because I want to go with someone.” uhhhh honeyyyyy why are you going to invite them? Especially if they try to convince you that its just a close friend of theirs…like if you do not know them personally do not even think twice.

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It is your party, your rules, and whatever you want to do will be perfect. If people pitch in for your event it is because they really want to so be sure they do not control you. At the end of the day, just try to have fun and make tons of memories of that day. There is no reason for you to stress on something when it should be the happiest moment of your life. If its a wedding, birthday party, bridal shower, baby shower, graduation, and etc don’t let no one try to ruin it for you because you deserve the best.

Okay now I’m done lol! If you have had or are having any of these situations I really hope you take in my advice. The less stress the better everything will turn out!!! Good luck! 

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Hellllooo!!!!!! ha!

What is up ya’ll?? It is my birthday week, and I am back!! I have been gone for a little while because I work so much now, and my times shift a lot now. There are times where I work in the mornings, and others where I work nights making me wake up super late during the day. It is always unpredictable of how my day may look like, and there are so many things that that I want you all to catch up on!!! 

Many of you know that I will be getting married soon so basically the preparations are going as planned. There are still a few things that I need to make sure that I have ready for my big day, and I am also cutting down on food so much now. It hasn’t been an easy journey because where I work there is ALWAYS something to eat. There are many times that they have all of my favorite things that it is so hard to resist, and when I say “no” to some I feel like I die a little lol! 

Also as you can finally see…I got my braces off!!!!
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This journey of 6 years is finally over, and now I can smile confident like I never did before. The only downside right now is dealing with my retainer, but that is something that I am trying to get used to. I have to take them off before I eat, and put them back on after I eat. However, before putting back my retainer I need to wash my teeth all the time. The retainers help me cut back on food because I don’t want to eat something that may stain my teeth, and then it will take me forever to wash them. The longer I have my retainer off the faster my teeth can shift, but that is exactly what I do not want which is why my retainer helps me out so much. 

Another thing is that I am already working on my music so I can upload it. I know I have been saying this since forever, but trust me it’s worth the wait. I was never confident being in front of a camera because of my braces, and now that they are off I finally feel comfortable. If you have any songs that you like make sure you let me know so I can do a cover on it. This week is kinda bitter-sweet because this is my last year in my 20s, and let me tell you it has been a roller coaster! I had my ups and downs but I am grateful for it all. I feel like this last year will be the best one yet! I have so much to look forward to, and so much to count down.

Tomorrow I will be posting something that might be an eye opener for some, and others the shoe might even fit lol!!! A lot of people get sensitive now a days, but that is because they think it’s directly to them when it really is not. lol! So how are you guys doing?? I hope all of you are having an amazing month like I am because June is literally the best month ever!! 😉 

 

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Hello mi gente

Hi…how are ya?

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It has been a long…long…LONG while that I haven’t uploaded nothing on my blog, but here I am! No, I did not disappear at all I was just trying to catch up on a few things in my life which are very exciting. First off, it is refreshing to return to the blogging world as well as creating new content. I didn’t want my blog to be something that will get ya’ll bored, but rather a blog that will get you excited once you see a notification from me. 

SO MUCH HAS HAPPENED

I am so excited to say that I work at Loyola hospital, which I mentioned that in one of my previous post, and also that my wedding planning is coming together. Since I started working, I had been trying to invest and save up on something that I have always dreamed of. For some it might not be the “big deal”, but keep in mind I am coming up from having “not what I dreamed of” to something that I am getting everything I ever wanted! This is all happening in less than 2 months!! 

Also, I finally got the camera I wanted, a brand new computer, and now I am in the process of getting a new phone. Is it not a big deal to some? well yes because they already have the stuff that I always wanted. However, to me is a big deal because I worked, and continue working so hard on my dream goals. To top it off, I work with the most amazing people in this universe. I am so blessed to work in an environment where I feel that I am loved, and with people that are willing to teach me more each day. 

Another thing that I am so excited about, is that I can finally do my Youtube channel, and post up my music!!!! I have a computer with an amazing software that makes my music sound as if I was in the studio. Since I love music so much, I learned how to play with the software in a matter of 2 hours. I also got a new gel kit which a co-worker of mine recommend it to me. My nails FINALLY look FLAWLESS, and I do not have to go to a nail salon anymore. If you want to know which one I use send me a message, and I will send you the picture.

 

WEDDING PLANNING

If you don’t know this yet….yes I am getting married…THIS YEAR! I am planning little by little with my Fiancé because we had been busy. However, in this whole process we have seen that it doesn’t take so much to do plan for a wedding. It actually takes such little time, but so many love to plan it 2 years before or even 1 year. The only thing is that I have’t contacted my bridesmaids yet because I am still looking for the perfect design that I want them to wear.

My colors? that will be a surprise! You will see pictures of it once the wedding day arrives, and trust me its a color that is very classy. I really love doing life with my significant other because it is finally time to get our life in one. We have been together for 5 years, and it has been a wild journey. We have overcome every single thing because we put God in the center of it all. I love how the process works with my husband to be because we literally turn everything into laughter.

If you haven’t seen yet, I started a wedding series, not so long ago, so I will link everything down below so you can follow along. I have a few topics coming up such as who to invite, how much will it be, how to have a wedding under a budget, and much more. So many questions that a lot of people ask me will finally be shared on here, and if you have any advice for me then please go ahead and share it! I am open to any advice and it would be awesome if I can feature YOU on my blog. 

THE PLAN FROM NOW ON

I used to be scared to voice my opinion on certain topics, but that won’t be the case anymore. So baby if the shoe fits…WEAR IT! I will be blogging more now because I finally have a set schedule to do everything that I wanted to do. With a new equipment, I will be able to accomplish some of my goals on this blog. If you don’t so yet, then go ahead and follow me on my social media because I will be posting a little bit more. I will try not to disappear this time.. I PROMISE! 

The day that I do have a small vacation from posting I will make sure to let you all know so you can stay updated. Let me know if you want me to talk about politics (oh man lol), beauty, motherhood (I can feature some cool moms on here), or whatever you have in mind. I am literally an open book, and trust me I do not hide my feelings at all. With that being said the following are the blogging wedding series that I started doing: 

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It’s all about the music

Engaged, but what happens now?I’m ENGAGED!!!

I’m ENGAGED!!!

I will be updating so many things on here so you better keep an eye out! Make sure you are subscribed to my channel because the content that I will be posting up will have you shook! I hope you are all enjoying this month because summer is just around the corner!!

Love ya’ll. God bless. Peace.

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Some of my favorite Youtube channels

From regular tv shows to Netflix, Youtube has become one of the biggest ways to literally “watch tv” online, and for free!!! Today I want to share with you all some of my favorite channels, and please let me know what you all watch now a days. I will be updating the wedding series on my blog later on next week because I am still working on my content to give you all the best advice, and tips on how to plan a wedding stress free. If you would like to see some of the posts that I already have on here, you can click below on some of the links that I will provide. Enjoy! 

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Engaged, but what happens now?

It’s all about the music

I’m ENGAGED!!!

A few verses that keep my faith growing

Today I want to share with you all a few bible verses that helped  me along my journey, and keep continuing to shape me up. I hope this helps you guys out if you are looking for a few bible verses that will inspire you to keep going with your journey! 

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Love ya’ll. God bless. Peace. 

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Bare Minerals Influenster Foundation Stick review

Today I am so excited to share with you all of what I got in the mail. Are you ready to see it? Check it out!

I was going to write about this about two weeks ago, but I had to test it out first. I got so happy because I got the same exact shade that matches me, and I can even use this foundation as a concealer. It literally blends and takes away my dark under eye circles. It leaves my skin looking flawless, and you can’t even tell I have this on! I normally don’t wear foundation on my whole face because I only need it for my under eye circles, and a few red spots that I might get from eating something heavy the day before. So what I do is that I try to blend it very well by soaking up warm water, and tapping my beauty sponge all over the parts that I want to cover. 

I have never tried a stick foundation, and I must say I love it!!!! The results turned out better then I expected, and I will get another one once I run out of this one. This blends very well with the Bare Minerals concealer or even the fenty beauty! You need to go to your nearest Sephora or Ulta and try to check out if they have your own shade because they have so many. I suffer from very dry skin, which everyone can hardly tell, and this did not break me out. The packaging? Is so adorable! 

It is good to take with you on the go, and it also the color of the container is aesthetically pleasing. If you have tried any other products from this brand please let me know down below which one is your favorite! I would like to check it out for myself. I received this as a complimentary for Influesnter in exchange for a review, and everything that I said is true. I would never promote something that would be bad for me, but also keep in mind that not all of us has the same condition of skin. Before you buy this, make sure you test it out first to see if it will help you out. There are so many products out there that are hard to trust. So be sure to get something that is right for you! If you have any product that you would love for me to review please be sure to let me know, and I will go to the store to check it out.

Love ya’ll. God bless. Peace. 

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Flashback Friday

Here is another song for ya’ll do you remember?? Let me know what song takes you back in time! I will be doing a flashback Friday as well as a Throwback Thursday about music. Stay tune for more wedding tips, and if you haven’t already make sure you catch up on the series that I am doing for engagements! Alright now the song of the day is the following: 

 

I would put the lyrics down, but I mean I think everyone knows this by heart lol! A blast from the past! Enjoy! 

Love ya’ll. God bless. Peace.

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