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Today I made the decision to reopen my YouTube channel for good….please check out my cover with the link below!!!

Before I continue, I want to say that the first video is dedicated to my team members, and to all of my kids that I have had the chance to mentor in leading them to know about the love of Jesus. My biggest wish is to continue to grow, and make the ministry into something even bigger. I have learned that sometimes God just wants to take his soldiers away from the comfort zone, and out to the unknown. 
I know for a fact that the calling God is giving me is something bigger then my imagination. However, it is making me nervous due to all the hate, and horrible comments that people make towards a certain type of music. I came to terms that I really can care less, I am ready for all the negative, positive, and even constructing comments. I would really love to share you guys my bucket list, but I won’t because there might be someone out there that might speak negative against my dreams. 

 

I learned to keep quite about my dreams, and goals because people like to speak negativity out to existence. I also learned to make a bucket list of every goal I want to accomplish this year. The only thing left to do is to act on every one of them instead of just dreaming about my goals coming true. It takes so much time, discipline, and a commitment to keep going for each goal. It is never easy but it is not impossible. 

It has been a while that I actually had the chance to sing on YouTube because I couldn’t afford to have the right equipment. After saving up money & working hard, I finally had enough to purchase my equipment!! It is taking a lot of time  to get used to everything because it is a lot to learn. I will be doing covers, vlogs, unboxing, reaction videos, and so much more. So please if you haven’t done so already make sure to subscribe, and if you are starting off your channel let me know to subscribe to yours!!!!

 

Are you following my series, it takes two to tango? If you are in a relationship, I hope my advices help because I am speaking from my own experience. I am thinking of doing a podcast later on so if you are intrestead of hearing me speak besides just reading my blog please let me know. I would like to help out many others out there, and give in my insights or even getting phone calls to personally speak one on one! Follow me on twitter for more inspiration, pintrest to see what I love, and instagram to keep updated! If you have snapchat add me as well to see all my adventures! I am as mishipcm on ALL platforms.
Love ya’ll and stay tuned for more!!! If you already subscribed thank you so much!!! Welcome to the fam!
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It takes two to tango (Part 1)

A few days ago, a close friend of mine asked me a question in regards on how to keep up with a relationship. The moment she asked me that question I couldn’t help, but remembering since my husband and I started dating till now. One question that she asked me was, “How often do my husband and I text and if it has changed throughout our journey?” with that in mind I decided to write this blog post in case someone out there needs to see this.

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I am going to be VERY honest, when Carlos Andres and I started out as friends we would literally text every…single….day! We would message each other even before going to sleep, or even if we would hang out with friends. As the time went by, we stopped talking for about a year, but continued to message each other once in a blue moon due to something that was going on at the time. Later on, we reconnected and started dating in which we had a lot of ups and downs.

It was never perfect, but we managed to pull through and try to live it up day by day. At this phase, we would only text during night because our schedules were the same at this stage. For example, we took the same classes, he was my lab partner, we sat side by side, we had the same breaks, we studied together, we worked in the same place, and we both went to the same church! So by the time it was night time we would just text each other “Goodnight see ya tomorrow babe!” and that was it.

It was sorta interesting because it was like someone was playing our dating life as if it was a delicate instrument. What I mean by this is the fact how everything was kept in balance, but we NEVER went to sleep mad at each other. I will never forget the day where we had the first argument, and since I came from relationships where guys never cared I thought he was going to be the same. Boy was I wrong! He kept me up till we resolved the issue, and then we went to sleep. 

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Old picture….2014? At the Tercer Cielo concert lol! 

I also remember how we would stay up till late via Skype studying, and quizzing each other before an exam. Social media was kept to a minimum to the point where people would ask if we were still together lol! Facebook is “meh” I usually go there for memes, but he never uses it. Instagram is my favorite but he only goes there for memes or inspiration to workout. Snapchat, I use it but he never does ha! However, twitter is a big one for him, but for me its literally “meh”. 

The only 3 apps that we used to communicate with each other back in the day were: Viber, Skype, and messenger. We kept our relationship to a minimum through social media, and again when we texted it would be kept to a minimum. When we got engaged we would text a little bit more then usual because of the wedding planning, and other than that I think that was it. I feel like the less social media is used the better the relationship, and healthier conversations may emerge.

So going back to the question, “How often do my husband and I text and if it has changed throughout our journey?” Now that we are married….we hardly text each other! lol! Communication, responsibility, and trust is KEY to a healthier relationship and lifestyle. In my next post, I will be writing about those three topics that I just mentioned, and I will break it down little by little. Another post will be on how to conquer jealously cause I know a few people out there with this exact problem. 

If you want to keep up with my posts please feel free to subscribe, and share this to anyone that you may think needs to see this. Keep up with the series “It takes two to tango!” Love ya’ll! 

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