It takes two to tango (part 2)

Welcome to the series “It takes two to tango” If you want to find out what I will be talking about today then keep on reading. Don’t forget to subscribe to my blog, follow me on social media, and subscribing to my Youtube channel! Now let’s get down with todays topic. 

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Oh the jealously in relationships can take a toll huh? Today I want to talk about how not trusting, and being jealous about every little thing can harm one another. Yes, I am starting out this post very brutally honest because a lot of people sometimes can’t tell that what they are doing is wrong. How so? Keep on reading, and if you find yourself in this situation I would say that the change happens now!

Manipulative, controlling, jealously, and not taking the time to put yourself in someone else’s shoes can make you seem self centered. I hate when girls are so freaking jealous that their boyfriend, fiancé, and heck husband need to have their “alone” time because all of a sudden they are “cheating”. NO HONEY! Just like every girl needs their alone time so do the guys! I am not being on anyones side, but I am literally putting myself in a different perspective here.

When it comes to girls, I can see a lot of guys doing the same crap, and that isn’t healthy at all. I am a strong supporter in which everyone needs their alone time, time with friends, and being alone with their family. You CAN have a friend of the opposite sex, and not have any sentimental relationship at all. Why is that? Sometimes having a good friend that respects you can come in like a blessing because you get to see a different perspective without assuming anything bad.

My husband and I have friends that we can trust, and even go out with. We have no problem in spending time alone, being with the family, or just go out and have fun in a good manner. Feel me on this one? no? Keep reading. Everyone NEEDS to recharge and have the feeling of missing your significant other so intensely that heck….not only does it spice things up, but also the bond gets stronger. It is okay to be to ask him/her about what is going on, but assuming things without talking ….that is bad.

I don’t support in going through messages, emails, texts, or even social media because at the end of the day the only person that is getting fooled is them. What I do support is having a communication that can be stronger day by day. Also, if your significant other came from an and relationship its important to start slow, and give them their time to get used to it. Actions speak louder than words so if you want them to change show them, act on it, but don’t say things that will harm them more than what they already are. 

Speaking from experience, I came from terrible relationships where this one guy cheated on me on two girls that had the same name (terrible), and to kill it even more someone else cheated on me with a girl that had the same name as the others. When I look back at it, I can’t help but think how stupid I was for getting mad at that…instead I should be thankful that stuff happened or else I wouldn’t be better than they are. (yes, I know what they are going through now, and its hilarious.) That’s karma baby. 

When I dated my husband, I remember I was starting to be a control freak because oh honey I was paranoid. However, his actions spoke louder and I will never forget a serious conversation we had that made me change my perspective about him. Boy let me tell you…what a conversation we had! I am blessed that I have someone that speaks the brutal truth, and that shows me how things should be. The same goes for me showing him things so he won’t act crazy on me. 

So what are my tips on this blog post? *ahem* Check it out:

Women:

  • Let your significant other have fun with his friends, and don’t blow up his phone. That will just show how immature you are, and instead send him one text asking how the day is going and to get back safe. THATS IT!
  • Don’t get into his social media because if he loves you he won’t do anything at all. Instead joke around with him about using fb, ig, sc, or whatever he has. 
  • If he is out with his family while you see his snaps from relatives having fun DO NOT get so worked up. That is his family and if y’all aren’t even married don’t even say that you should had been invited. The time will come when you will lol 
  • If a “close friend” is speaking bad about him to you put that so called friend in his or her place. Instead of hearing them, be truthful and in a nice way tell your partner what you have heard. Communication is key!
  • If your guy is out having his alone time, girl chill out and let him be! Sometimes he needs to be out to get a hair cut, have a spa day alone, go out the movies alone (especially if you hate the movie he wants to see), and let him eat out alone. The man needs to recharge, and that is the perfect time to let him see who you are. 
  • If your guy has a friend of the opposite sex, and has been there for him first than you do not get jealous. Why is that? If he met her first before you came alone then that means he has chances to be with her, but he picked you after meeting you. Does that make sense? Sometimes it’s good to have a GOOD FRIEND that can put him on check for you, or let him have a different perspective. 
  • Try not to text so much and instead call each other, or see each other often. Using texts can always have miscommunication on a lot of topics creating unwanted fights. 

Men: 

  • Let your girl breathe! Stop being so immature in hitting her up all the freaking time. If she tells you that she needs her alone time trust me…LET HER!
  • When she is out with her friends don’t text her so much because chances are that she is trying to catch up with her girls. 
  • Everyday tell her she looks hot even though she might be sick. One word can trigger a women’s brain, and that can be the fuel she needs to get things going throughout the day.
  • Support her every goal! If she wants to workout go with her, and be her main support. I know a lot of men that prefer their girl to be unhealthy, and even dress to the point of them not being attractive because “others” might get her. 
  • If she is out with her family, don’t call her so much because she is trying to enjoy quality time with her loved ones. If you aren’t invited that just means its not the right time, but you will soon get your chance. 
  • Don’l look at her social media but instead talk things out if you feel that something weird is going on.
  • Actions speak louder than words! Instead of sending her texts why don’t you just make something? Don’t spend so much money on things that won’t be so meaningful. If you think about her write her a poem, make something cute out of paper, or anything else you can possibly think of. Trust me us girls LOVE things that are handmade especially if we see that it came with the pure intention of making us feel loved, wanted, and respected. 

 

They say old love is the best love, and I couldn’t agree more! I feel like I was definitely born in the wrong time because text messages or Facebook posts are just wack. I love poems written down on paper, something hand made, or a small picnic out at the park with PB&J sandwiches which my husband did that for me one time ha! I feel like back in the day people knew how to maintain a relationship, and knew what the word respect meant. 

Always remember to keep the love alive, the bedroom spiced up, and the bond stronger than yesterday. Never underestimate the power of communication, handwork, and actions because those are a total win. Well, this is it for today! If you haven’t seen my last post go ahead and check it out!!! Make sure you also check out my YouTube channel for covers which I finally posted up 2 songs. It would mean so much to me if you subscribe as well, and if you would like me to do a podcast let me know! I am open to suggestions! 

Love ya’ll. 

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It takes two to tango (Part 1)

A few days ago, a close friend of mine asked me a question in regards on how to keep up with a relationship. The moment she asked me that question I couldn’t help, but remembering since my husband and I started dating till now. One question that she asked me was, “How often do my husband and I text and if it has changed throughout our journey?” with that in mind I decided to write this blog post in case someone out there needs to see this.

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I am going to be VERY honest, when Carlos Andres and I started out as friends we would literally text every…single….day! We would message each other even before going to sleep, or even if we would hang out with friends. As the time went by, we stopped talking for about a year, but continued to message each other once in a blue moon due to something that was going on at the time. Later on, we reconnected and started dating in which we had a lot of ups and downs.

It was never perfect, but we managed to pull through and try to live it up day by day. At this phase, we would only text during night because our schedules were the same at this stage. For example, we took the same classes, he was my lab partner, we sat side by side, we had the same breaks, we studied together, we worked in the same place, and we both went to the same church! So by the time it was night time we would just text each other “Goodnight see ya tomorrow babe!” and that was it.

It was sorta interesting because it was like someone was playing our dating life as if it was a delicate instrument. What I mean by this is the fact how everything was kept in balance, but we NEVER went to sleep mad at each other. I will never forget the day where we had the first argument, and since I came from relationships where guys never cared I thought he was going to be the same. Boy was I wrong! He kept me up till we resolved the issue, and then we went to sleep. 

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Old picture….2014? At the Tercer Cielo concert lol! 

I also remember how we would stay up till late via Skype studying, and quizzing each other before an exam. Social media was kept to a minimum to the point where people would ask if we were still together lol! Facebook is “meh” I usually go there for memes, but he never uses it. Instagram is my favorite but he only goes there for memes or inspiration to workout. Snapchat, I use it but he never does ha! However, twitter is a big one for him, but for me its literally “meh”. 

The only 3 apps that we used to communicate with each other back in the day were: Viber, Skype, and messenger. We kept our relationship to a minimum through social media, and again when we texted it would be kept to a minimum. When we got engaged we would text a little bit more then usual because of the wedding planning, and other than that I think that was it. I feel like the less social media is used the better the relationship, and healthier conversations may emerge.

So going back to the question, “How often do my husband and I text and if it has changed throughout our journey?” Now that we are married….we hardly text each other! lol! Communication, responsibility, and trust is KEY to a healthier relationship and lifestyle. In my next post, I will be writing about those three topics that I just mentioned, and I will break it down little by little. Another post will be on how to conquer jealously cause I know a few people out there with this exact problem. 

If you want to keep up with my posts please feel free to subscribe, and share this to anyone that you may think needs to see this. Keep up with the series “It takes two to tango!” Love ya’ll! 

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Where you least expect it

Where you least expect it you will find me there.

Even though you can’t see me I am everywhere.

From the smile of a child to the last rain drop.

You will be able to see me even when you feel time stops. 

There is no one in this world that can show your worth,

No one that can bring you love more than you will ever know.

From the waves of the ocean to the air that you breathe.

You can see me even if you are hiding in the deep blue see. 

There is fear in the world, but I am with you.

Holding your hand till the day is through. 

Do you know where to find me? Here is another clue.

In order to see me you need to find the real you. 

Stop acting like how society wants you to act, and start acting the way you need to be.

Stop hearing voices inside your head and start trusting in me. 

Who am I? 

I am your God, you Father, and your King the one who  knew you before you were in the womb and made you so perfectly. 

Composed by: Me, Myself, and I

 

I had this song on replay every the whole day, and it is in Spanish. It talks about how you even though you can’t see the Lord you can find him in the least places that you can ever expect. If this spoke to you I am glad it did, and I hope you have an amazing day or night depending on where you are at.

Love ya’ll. God bless. Peace.

Michele C.

How to get over an ex FOR GOOD!

So you are probably thinking, “Oh dang this post….” YES! if you find yourself into this situation then trust me I am here to help. Being with someone for a long time can leave you feeling some type of way if one of you ended the relationship. If it is due to cheating or other reasons which it did not work out then it was for the best to separate both ways. At first, everyone cries because they feel like the world is about to end, or they do things that they should not do once they get out of a relationship.

 

What NOT to do

Do NOT be in a relationship immediately after a month. 

Do NOT use anyone as a re-bound.

Do NOT have friends with benefits.

Do NOT get on dating websites.

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When you get into a relationship after a month then you might confuse yourself. By that I mean: your feelings will get confused, and you will end up hating the fact that you have no idea what the heck to do. Using someone as a rebound will backfire SO BAD because if the other person does not know why you are dating him/her you will get caught up with so many lies. By having friends with benefits (lol man I am laughing at this one) okay this is bad just DON’T! The reason behind this is that the “friend” that you might end up “using to spend time” will probably end up really liking you, or vice versa. This is not good just because what if you are not planning on nothing serious with this other individual or him/her on you? Using people as a rebound also shows that you are desperate for attention because you can’t get it anywhere else, and honestly that looks pathetic. I have seen some cases that I look at them as a joke, and it’s a show for me because to be brutally honest it looks like entertainment. People that do this are not mature, and have a mind of a child. Let’s move on to the next one shall we? DATING WEBSITES! & One of them I mean TINDER! Stop looking to hook up with people online because they might turn out to be something way different. Also, it is dangerous because usually people who use tinder (SOME) they are just trying to get a one night stand. Are you ready to see what you need to do in order to get over someone? Also, these are some tips that you will easily show them what they missed out on, it will hurt them like hell, and you will get over it quickly. 

 

What to do

Go out and travel.

Go to the gym.

Get a fresh hair cut.

Get some new clothes. 

Get creative. 

Spend time alone & re-discover yourself. 

Learn something new. 

Break your normal routine. 

Hear some really good music. 

 

Ending a long or short term relationship means a chance for you to get out there, and learn to love yourself HARD all over again. When the other person either sees you or hears about you doing good it will trigger them so much, and they will rethink everything that he/she has put you through. The trick is for you to get more awesome than what you were before, but not going back to them once they hit you up after they see you doing great. If you do not have the money to travel or buy new things then I saw to get creative with the stuff you have now.

Also, if you cannot travel then go out to a different park, and discover your own city. Go out alone and have your own coffee dates, go to the movies alone, go out to eat alone, and try to break out of your old routine. Another thing is to update your playlist! There are certain songs that remind everyone about their ex, and it just gets annoying on hearing the same thing all over again. Take at least one year or two on being alone! Do NOT rush into anything until you feel good, get over the person, and just want to move completely on.

In order to start something you need to leave the past behind ya, and move on. Remember KARMA when you play with someone else’s feelings then you will end up playing yourself. I am so proud on some of the people that I know that took my advice’s and it worked for them. If they can do it then trust me honey so can you! The day you find the right one you will know, and do not worry about getting into a relationship quick. This is because I know people in their 30s (almost 40s) that finally found the love of their life, and that is never bad.

Age shouldn’t be the reason as to why you would want to rush into getting with someone….REMEMBER THAT! If this has spoken to you in any way just know that I am saying this for your own good. I don’t want you to end up in a position where you will regret everything, and not being able to move on. Just tell your ex (in the words of Ariana Grande) … “thank you…next!” ha! I hope you have an amazing day or night depending on where you are at. 

Love ya’ll. God bless. Peace. 

Michele C

Whistle while you wait

You might be wondering why the title “Whistle while you wait” am I right? Today I want to talk about why waiting for the right person to walk into your life is very important. I have met many people that always want to rush into a relationship, and end up getting hurt in the end. I have seen many others that end up “falling in love” with one person, and could care less if the other individual uses them just to be with them. What do I mean by that? I mean friends with benefits! One might think that it is okay to be with someone they really like because they will “soon begin to like them”, and that my friends is a total lie. People take advantage of the other individual thinking only about themselves, but not about the other.

Waiting for the right one is very important because you may never know if the one that is right for you is literally watching your every move. Also, the right person for you can even be your best friend, but you are to blind to even see it. Waiting is a key essential to a successful relationship that will end up being a long term. December is upon us meaning Christmas is just a few weeks away, and I know that some that are single are wondering why they are still alone. It doesn’t matter how old you are, DO NOT rush into a relationship where you end up getting hurt! The first thing to do is to love yourself before loving anyone else!!! 

I want to share with you all two videos that will explain what I am trying to say from my favorite all time day-time tv:

 

I think that all sums up exactly when I mean Whistle while you wait. Don’t you ever settle for less, always look for the best, work on yourself, and love yourself. At the end of the day your true love is really you, and not the other person. There is no better feeling after you love yourself whole because when that happens then you know exactly that you deserve better. It might take you a while but in the mean time do you!!! If this has spoken to anyone out there I am glad that I helped. This was it for today and I hope you have a great day or night depending on where you are at. 

Love ya’ll. God bless. Peace.

Michele C.

Thanksgiving My other half

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Okay now I want to introduce you all to someone very important to me! I usually do not write a lot about my relationship, okay sometimes I kinda do, but not so much because I like to keep somethings private. Today will be dedicated to my very best friend, my love, to the one that always believes in me, my number one fan, and my boyfriend Carlos Andres. We have been through so many things, and what is crazy is that the way we treat other looks like were either best friends or we just started dating. We have been together for over 4 years and 9 months (tomorrow will be 10 months) and till this day it barely feels like we just started our journey. 

We have been best friends since the year of 2011 and started dating by 2014. During the time when we were just good friends we were both dating other people. I remember we used to rant to each other about the idiots that we were involved with at the time, and had a good laugh about everything. It never crossed my mind in being with Andres just because he was only my friend, and nothing else. The way that we met though was hilarious because I was really mad at the time that I met him. Wanna know the story? Here it goes!

As some of you know I am a singer/songwriter, and the day that I met him it was during a talent show that was going on. Andres was the judge (I know crazy right) and I was the one trying out to get into the show. A mutual friend that we had at the time literally pushed me in the room because he loved the way I sang. I wasn’t really felling it because that day I was going through something with an ex of mine, and I was just so freaking mad. I remember I walked in and the first person that I saw was my boyfriend. He looked at me ONCE I started singing so basically he was in lala land when I walked in, and when I sang the first note that is when he looked up. 

From that point on was just the start of our story that we both never knew it was going to end up with us being together. We have been through so many things, and we conquered one of our most hardest times ever! We have never took “breaks” because we both do not believe in that, and the beauty behind us is that if we have a problem we sit down and fix it. I don’t want anyone to feel offended but for Andres and I taking breaks is for the weak. Meaning why take a break when you just can break up? Taking breaks is for weak relationships, and that means they will never be happy even in marriage. 

We have conquered so many things through the years that we can both finally agree that we are in an amazing place. We put God in the center of our relationship, we pray for each other, we laugh at each other, and we have so much fun! We have this habit calling each other “bro” at times that one day someone really thought we were siblings, and I am telling you we were laughing nonstop the whole day. I love this man so much and the plans that we both have for our future are nothing but amazing. God has been great to us by showing us his love, mercy, and his grace. Especially by giving us both patience to handle each other lol!

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Andres knows that I love him to the moon and back! He is forever my best friend, my bro, my boyfriend, my partner in crime, and much more.  A healthy relationship like ours will make you go to sleep each night with a smile, and wake up with a positive attitude. He is my purpose partner and honestly that is the biggest gift I could ever have because he fills up my heart. I am the creative mind he is the logic side so we are both a balance, and thanks to that we are achieving our goals faster then ever. Thank you babe for all that you do you literally rock sir! lol! If you guys want to check out his website you can do so at:

https://solarctraining.wordpress.com/

He will start posting up more after our semester finally ends, and he will talk about health! He has before and after pictures on his blog site, and will upload new ones very soon so keep an eye out! Do you have an significant other that you are thankful for? Make sure you let him/her know how much they mean to you! I hope you all have a very blessed day or night depending on where you are at. 

Love ya’ll. God bless. Peace.

Michele C.

Long Distance Relationship (2,663 mi away)

Ahhh! how many of ya’ll clicked on this blog post super fast? Don’t be ashamed and say, “ME GIRL ME!!!!” Let me tell you I completely understand that feeling! I am going to give you a few thoughts about this topic because I have been through this before, and totally remember that feeling. Also, let me tell you that this long distance thing does NOT work for everyone, it might work for some, but not everyone in the world. Alright, sit back, relax, get a drink or a snack, and read till the end of this blog maybe you will see if long distance is for you…..or not. Also, there will be some tips for you guys in this situation so keep on reading!!!

A few years ago I met this boy called (lets call him DA) lol! I mean heck I think he could care less if he comes and reads my blog. Actually, it is all good cause he is so far away and he does not understand English, but wait does google translate count? lol! Anyways, I met him when I was 8 years old so basically it was like a childhood crush, which is exactly how that started, but when we thought it would had a happy ending it really did not. This is because we were far about 4,286 km to be exact…I was living in Chicago, IL (USA) and him Periera, Colombia. See the difference? lol!  

The story is that we both grew up totally living in two separate worlds, environments, languages, traditions, and the list goes on. We never saw each other for almost I think it was about 14 years or 15 years max! A little bit about my background though so ya’ll won’t get lost: My dad is from Colombia so basically he grew up with (DA’s) family and my family is LITERALLY neighbors with DA’s family lol! So close that as soon as you walk out of my house in Colombia you will see his house…(awkward) lol! 

Alright getting back to my story, as the years passed by I would always ask for him when I would talk to my grandma. We were the best of buddies when I went to Colombia to visit my family when I was little, but as the years passed by I think my grandma sorta knew I kinda liked him which she avoided the question. This is because I think my grandma knew that he would break my heart, and she thought the long distance was not for me. 

So anyways, the years passed by, we both grew up, and then dad decided to travel to Colombia after so many years. We never went because traveling to Colombia is freaking expensive! By the time we went the prices were still sky high but my little sister needed to meet the other side of the family which is why we traveled. I remember the first day I saw him and it totally felt that I just saw him the day before. It felt as the years never passed by because we took off from where we left off..(Does it make sense?) 

As far as I remember, my parents, sister, and I stayed there for 3 weeks because of my fathers job that did not let him stay longer. After the 3 weeks, things happened between this guy and I and well my lord did we like each other like ya’ll have no idea. There was just one problem…He was going to have a child. No, he was not with the girl (that girl is freaking crazy I swear that’s another blog for later), but the case is that I knew and I was like “meh” we could “wing” it. 

If he ends up reading this (I am sorry dude but you know I speak nothing but the truth), and well yeah long story short he ended up breaking my heart. This was because I mean he took the side of his “ex” which is now his “all” or that is what she thinks lol! Other reasons will be left unknown, but one of the biggest reasons was because man oh man did he love to assume things about me without even asking me! Which that is exactly what hurt me the most.

I remember one time that I left to my mothers country Guatemala, we weren’t together anymore at the time, and he sent me the most unbelievable email. I will quote what he said but not the whole email, and YES I still remember it by heart cause I know I treated the living life outta him. He said,

“Why are you telling everyone that we are getting married when you dam well know that I am stuck with so many responsibilities! You are such a little princess aka daddy’s girl looking for a prince charming and you need to grow up!” 

There was more in the email! I was so angry cause honestly when he sent me that I was not even in the USA, I never talked to anyone in my family when I got back to Chicago, and I was at my mom’s country for 3 months without a freaking decent internet access! So since that day I had prepaid internet in Guatemala, (yeah prepaid trust me I was dying and my fingers flew on the keyboard writing back to this immature soul at that time) I took my time treating him left to right. When I treat someone I make sure that person would prefer dying then hearing me so yeah. ^_^ 

Years passed by, about 3 years to be exact and I went back to Colombia determined to get back at him in front of his face lol! Our communication was horrible when “we were dating” because it was all by email, skyping whenever he had time or internet, or he would call me every two weeks. We never had a face to face talk besides that last time I was over there, but if there was one thing I knew was that I liked him. I ended up hating him after that horrible email, but that didn’t last when I saw him again. 

So like I was saying, I saw him again and well I felt like a little girl seeing him, but I still had a conversation with him…via facebook while I was a house away from him. This guy is not the type where you talk face to face with him because he has a “kid”. Before I forget, shout-out to all those men out there who despite that they have a child they don’t get back with the ex just because of the kid! Yeah, cause he did that exactly smh! However, in the facebook message he LITERALLY said,

“I will never get married with anyone unless it is with you.” 

Uhhh…..What? Yeah, I was more confused then sitting in my anatomy class hearing the teacher speak. First, he used to talk all this smack and now he was saying that? Oh, I know why though! You see, my cousin has a friend that I “dated” to see DA’s reaction while I was over there, and yeah that was his reaction lol! Marrying me. However, that was not in my plans and they are not anymore. So right now we are just good friends, I don’t talk to him, but his sister freaking loves me and I love her! That is the only communication I have with his family. 

What is my main point here in long distance? Well, it did not have a happy ending because I mean it was not meant for me. I am not about to deal with so much immature crap and especially someone doubting on the type of girl I am. If that was just one email I do not want to imagine how the rest of my life would be being with him. Don’t get me wrong he is a great guy in his own world, and he is a great dad. It’s just his relationship life where he needs the most desperate help which I truly hope he gets a good lady, and not stay with that crazy ex. 

He is the type of guy where he works hard, gets whatever he wants, tries to please his family in every way, very family oriented, a somewhat good singer, and I can’t think of other qualities but if there is one thing I know is that he is a great friend. He knows I will always be here for him with my sarcastic ways because at the end of the day were still “family” cause of the history of our families. Long story short..that is my story not so good but it is what it is.

TIPS FOR LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS!

If there is one thing that I am thankful for in regards to having a chance with this experience is that I can be able to give advice to many others planning in having a long distance relationship. So here they go:

  1. Communication is KEY! Keep communicating constantly because the more communication both of you have the better chances both of you will mature more.
  2. Get to know each other! be his/her best friend and always be there for the person. 
  3. NEVER DOUBT! Try to trust on the significant other no matter how far they are because that is the only way trust can be built.
  4. Have an issue? Don’t talk it out via email because as you can see it will get worse. WAIT till you guys talk on the phone to solve the problem. 
  5. ASK QUESTIONS! Keep asking questions every single day because you need to know what they are thinking to not mess anything up.
  6. KNOW THEIR CIRCLE! Know the friends they hang out with and be sure to have a “skype party” so you won’t feel awkward when meeting them face to face. 
  7. Get to know their FAMILY! Talk to them by phone and ask them how their day is doing it is that simple.
  8. Skype them as much as you can! Not everything is by email, messenger, instagram, or whatever type of social media you guys are using. Make sure you get to see him/her on video chat. 
  9. Always set a time! In my case we were in 2 different time zones so that was another issue. Make sure you guys set a time for yourselves only with no interruptions. 
  10. Pray for one another and have God as the center of your relationship because the Lord will make you both stronger during those times. 
  11. Last but not least, LOVE THE PROCESS! The more you do this the more in love you will fall for him/her, and the more you will be able to count the days till both of you see each other again.

 

That is exactly what I learned from having this experience, and when I think of the things we should had done I am like “DANG! We would have had 7 years together!!”. However, that was not the case but hey all of you are lucky by having me go through with that to tell you the tips lol! I truly, from the bottom of my heart, wish him nothing but the best. For all of you out there trying to have a long distance relationship GOOD LUCK! and always try to impress that significant other one way or another. Keep the love alive ya’ll!!! If any of you found this helpful I am happy it did!! Send me a message if you guys have any questions because I would be happy to answer them all! Make sure you follow my blog, subscribe to my two channels on YouTube, and share this post with anyone who needs to read this! Love ya’ll, God bless, and peace out!

XOXO

 MishiPcm